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How not to say the wrong thing

How not to say the wrong thing

Have you ever said something crass you regret and wish you could take back? Millions of readers have learned this simple trick to avoid embarrassment and hurt feelings since it was first published in 2013. We're republishing it as part of L.A. Timeless, a collection of classic pieces from the Times' 143-year archive.

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