No sex please: a lavender marriage suits us | Letters

Readers respond to article about the increase in people seeking matrimony centred on companionship and connection rather than sexEmma Beddington has spilled the beans on a hidden truth (The lavender marriage is back – but why, 19 October). The lavender marriage has never really gone away. It may not be performed for quite the same reasons as was the case in olden times, but the concept is still very much valid.I am now in my 60s. In my early 20s, I had an ostensibly heterosexual marriage that was effectively a lavender marriage. I then went on to a same-sex relationship, which eventually became a civil partnership. Despite assumptions made by many, that too was pretty well entirely platonic, and lavender. Finally, after the death of my civil partner in 2013, I progressed into my current single-sex lavender marriage. Continue reading...

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